Helping Lawyers Find Love in Life
Lawyer Career Consulting DC helps lawyers manage professional demands and personal isolation to find a romantic partner.
Despite professional success, many lawyers have difficulty finding a romantic partner:
- "I would like to find a wife, but I have no time to go out. I’m always working."
- "My Blackberry is always on. If a client or partner calls, I’ll cancel my date. "
- "I’m embarrassed to go out, because I have nothing to talk about."
- "I’m desperate to marry and have children, but I can’t balance that with my work."
- "I’m afraid that if I have a husband and children, I’ll never have time to see them."
As a lawyer, you live under continuous pressure:
- You Juggle: You are constantly juggling external demands;
- You Perform: You have high performance standards; and
- You Solve Problems: You may have a "problem-solving" mentality that assumes anything can be "fixed," with cleverness and ingenuity, rather than by using skills of emotional maturity (such as patience).
Lawyers face competing time demands, which impede romantic life:
- Deadlines at work interfere with personal life;
- Law practice requires much writing, which is socially isolating;
- Clients are even more demanding than prospective dates;
- You may defer meeting your personal needs, but youcan’t stop earning income or paying bills;
- Looking for a romantic partner takes time and involves wasted effort,which a busy lawyer cannot afford;
- Many lawyers like to be in control, and have low frustration tolerance; and
- Anxieties about job performance andbillable hours constantly take precedence over romance.
Lawyer Career Consulting DC helps lawyers develop and sustain an intimate relationship in their personal lives.
Even if you are very busy, Lawyer Career Consulting DC can help you to:
- Find time to develop an outside interest, for your own satisfaction and to sustain a relationship with someone else;
- Find a partner who shares that interest;
- Develop and pursue a strategy for dating and "going out";
- Understand the emotional issues that interfere with your relationships; and
- Strengthen your communication andother interpersonal skills.
Lawyer Career Consulting DC can help you add richness, depth and meaning to your search for an intimate relationship.